Bidai: when i capture moments from the
sea of emotions...
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| Emptiness by SudeshnaRituSarkar |
Word Stuck in her thoughts..
That day was her beautiful dream. But
she never imagined that day can make
her cry..
Lots of images rushed her mind,
The moment of being complete and empty
at the same time...
It's all Fun, Laughter and Happiness
for all till the Wedding Day and finally comes the Bidai, the time for all the
bride to leave her loved one for a new
start and a life that awaits her.
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| My two worlds by SudeshnaRituSarkar |
Its a pool of mixed emotion for every
girl, Its a step towards the journey of happily ever after. Its an transition
zone where a girl meets the womanhood.
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| Bitiya by SudeshnaRituSarkar |
A moment
when words are incapable
and eyes speak the heart.
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| Filling you and feeling the pain by SudeshnaRituSarkar |
Before crossing the doorstep, she throws
back three handfuls of rice and coins over her head, into the house
as girls
are considered the manifestation of Goddess Lakshmi, the deity of wealth and
prosperity.
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| They call it repayment but I call it debt of memories , each rice holding several memories of being your mother.. |
Thus, while leaving, this ritual is practice to keep wealth and
prosperity intact in her home.
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| She turned and a last look.. |
This is the most emotional moment of the
complete marriage ceremony as the bride's family and friends bids her a teary
farewell
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| Holding the flash back of childhood memories |
the parents of bride has to give their daughter
responsibility in the son in law’s hand, the daughter whom they have given
birth & brought up with love and now they have to hand over to another
family where she has to follow their life style.
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| saying goodbye to the reflection... by SudeshnaRituSarkar |
The Father of the Bride is usually the
last one in line to bid his daughter farewell before handing her off to her new
life – her now husband.
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| A moment when one is saying bye and another one is holding you tight for life time... by SudeshnaRituSarkar |
He requests of the Groom to care for his
daughter and forgive her for her mistakes, to be a constant guide through their
marital journey, essentially handing away his most cherished and beloved
possession. This crucial moment defines this ritual and gives it its memorable
emotional connection – a father’s love for his daughter in its true form.
No matter what, this is one of those
moments that will make anyone cry. While I love to capture the emotions
so I find bidai as a sea of emotions.
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